How to Deal With Divorce Without Failing at Work

How to Deal With Divorce Without Failing at Work Sometimes, we encounter situations that threaten to bring our entire lives crumbling down. If you have been through the devastation that is divorce, you understand this intimately.When you meet someone you click with, that you cherish and want to be with for the rest of your life, the feeling is magical.You then get married, and the more you live with them, the more they become a part of you.Regardless of the nature of your marriage (unless it was a totally toxic marriage), and as cliché as this might sound, the two of you become one heart, you become extensions of each other.You can think of divorce as cutting that one heart in half. You were one, but now you have just been ripped apart, and that hurts a lot.The pain and the trauma from a divorce is so severe that it’s almost impossible for it not to leak into other areas of your life and affect all your other relationships.If you are not careful, it might even start affecting your work and how you relate with your bosses, collea gues, customers, and other people you interact with at the workplace.The trauma from the divorce might also take its toll on your productivity and the quality of your work.Some people might go to the other extreme and become workaholics â€" drowning their pain in work â€" and that isn’t good either.In today’s article, we are going to take a look at how to deal with divorce and at least get a grip on yourself while you are at work to ensure your productivity and workplace relationships don’t suffer.TAKE A FEW DAYS OFFIn the days following your divorce, when the wound is still raw, your pain is extreme.During this period, it can be very difficult to concentrate on your work because your heart is still in anguish.Naturally, your mind is going to be assailed with dark thoughts of guilt, regret, or anger.In such a state, you won’t be able to focus on interacting with clients or completing projects.For some, divorce comes with depression or at least an acute case of melancholy.If your job requires that you interact with others on a daily basis, it might prove impossible to go out there and smile at people when you are sick with distress.In such situations, it is okay to take a few days off for some emotional recovery. While work is important, self-care is also important because you are a human being, not a machine.Unlike a robot, you are emotionally and psychologically vulnerable.Taking some vacation days off work after the divorce can help your refocus, plan your future, figure things out.You can then return to work with a clear plan of action, instead of just trudging through each work day, trying to put on a smile while you are dying inside.ACKNOWLEDGE, ACCEPT, HEAL, MOVE ONIgnoring physical pain is a recipe for disaster. The same is true for emotional pain.The emotional wounds we try to cover up end up rearing their heads again in future and causing much more damage in our lives.For instance, there is the guy at work who looks okay, but he’s struggling with an alcohol addiction.Having drinks after work was a way for him to escape his pain, but it turned into a habit he is now unable to give up.In extreme cases, he might even have a bottle of whisky in his desk at work which he sips from during work hours. Dealing with such addictions becomes another challenge that they have to deal with, on top of the initial trauma.There are many people who develop addictions after going through something like divorce. These addictions usually develop as a way of covering up for the pain they are feeling.Later on, the addiction becomes toxic and affects other areas of their life, including their work life. They start coming to work late, untidy, intoxicated, disorganized, or they miss work altogether.To avoid falling into such addictions, don’t ignore or try to repress your feelings after going through something like a divorce. What we bury has a way of growing stronger within us and then one day exploding.When we ignore emotional pain, the pa in grows inside us, corroding our souls, and gradually leaks its toxic influence on various aspects of our lives and causes even greater problems and heartache, sending us down a slippery slope that can be difficult to come out of.After the divorce, have the courage to acknowledge your pain. Don’t fill your free time with endless activities just so you don’t have to face your pain or think about your situation.It’s okay to sit and think things through, write in a journal, talk to a close friend or a psychiatrist, and so on.Anything that allows you to face the truth of your divorce, acknowledge it, accept it, heal from it, and acquire the mental/emotional resources to move on, in that order.Note, however, that there is a morbid, self-indulgent, kind of introspection, which dwells on your hurt â€" that is not what we are talking about.It’s not about fixating on what you did wrong and spending all your time wishing you could go back in time and change what happened.It is about acknowledging that mistakes were done, acknowledging and accepting that the divorce has happened, and then picking your lessons and moving forward.AVOID RUMINATING After the divorce, you will note a tendency in yourself to ask questions such as “why?” or “what if?”This is ruminating, and it is not at all helpful. No matter how much you obsess over what happened, thinking about it won’t fix it.This may seem to clash with our previous point, but allow me to explain the difference. In the previous point, I said that you should acknowledge, accept, heal, and move on. Note that the emphasis is on progress.When you ruminate obsessively, however, you are not accepting, you are not healing, and you are certainly not moving on.You are just indulging in a feedback loop of self-pity and self-loathing. It’s not healthy.Do not think about your divorce just for the sake of thinking about it. Think with the end goal of healing and moving on.That’s why when you have to think about you r divorce, instead of asking questions such as “why?” and “what if?” you should ask questions such as “what next?” or “what do I do next?” or “what’s the plan?”Such questions force you to think of a post-divorce future. In fact, they force you to acknowledge, accept, and motivate you to move on. They force you to start planning for the future. They make you realize that though you have just had a divorce, the world is not over.There is still more to life. There is your work, your family, your friendships, your hobbies, your career goals, and so on.All these are things that need your attention, and becoming aware of them can help you cope as you realize that although you have lost something, you haven’t lost everything.Unless your introspection is systematic and geared towards moving on, you will lose control of your thoughts and end up feeling bad about yourself, with nothing gained.Looking towards the future, on the other hand, helps reduce some of the feeli ngs of disillusionment or hopelessness.Think of it as planting a seed. Thinking is like planting seeds in your mind. Thinking about the future in positive terms plants a seed that can help motivate you to move on with your life.PRACTICE GRATITUDE“Gratitude? How can I be grateful when I have just gone through a divorce?” This is what you are probably asking yourself, right? Well, let me explain.Think about a situation in the movies where a character loses a job they loved, a relationship, or something else that defined them. After losing this thing, they seem to have lost their spirit.They get dejected and become unkempt, looking like someone who just crawled out of wreckage. When they speak, they are thoroughly pessimistic. You might hear them say that they just lost everything.As someone watching the movie, you probably get dumbfounded by this statement. You can see all that the character has going for them in their lives.They usually still have people who care about them, but in their fog of defeat and self-pity, they can’t see what they have or who they have. All they can see is what they have lost.Does that sound familiar?In all such cases, if you look carefully, you will note one unifying theme: they lost something that defined them. In other words, it felt to them as if they had lost themselves.Having lost that thing or person that defined them, they felt lost, rudderless, helpless, and hopeless.Doesn’t that sound exactly like what happens when one goes through a divorce?As we said in the introduction, loving and living with someone for a long time makes them a part of you.You are so in sync that you can tell what the other person is thinking, feeling, or how they would react to situations.When you undergo a divorce, the divorce splits you in two, and that’s why it’s so devastating.It’s like having a body part cut off without anesthesia â€" the emotional/psychological equivalent of that.Just like that the people in the movie, you have lost something/someone that defined you, and now you feel completely lost and rudderless.Like them, you feel like you have lost everything.However, just like the people in the movie, you are wrong.You still have a lot going for you. You have your job, career goals, friends, family, pet, kids, and so on.As difficult as this might sound, you have to actively make yourself reflect on the things you should be thankful for.Do you know that it is impossible to be grateful when you are in a negative mood, and equally impossible to be in a negative mood when you are feeling grateful?If you don’t believe us, test it. With this in mind, you should use gratitude as a hack to positive thinking.Negative thoughts focus your attention on what you lack, what you have lost. Gratitude directs your attention towards what you do have.I am not asking you to lie to yourself that everything is alright and whip up false emotions of positivity. Far from it â€" in fact, I am asking you to be more realistic.Thin king that you have lost everything is the lie. Acknowledging that you still have much to be thankful for in your life is simply a means to bring back emotional/psychological balance.If you don’t know how to start, get a notebook and call it your gratitude notebook.Every night before you go to sleep, or every morning before you start your day, or whenever you are free during the day, or whenever you are feeling particularly negative, write down the things in your life you are grateful for.There is always something to be grateful for, even if it’s something as simple as the roses in your garden blooming, or the fact that you are still alive.CLOSE THE CHAPTER GRACEFULLYThis might be the hardest thing I am going to ask of you, but it has to be done.You have to release your partner now that you are divorced. When I say release, I mean releasing them emotionally.If you are angry at them, that means you are still grasping onto them in your heart.Contrary to what most of us believe, for giveness is not about letting the other person off the hook. In fact, forgiving somebody is more healing for us than it is for them.When you hold on your bitterness against someone inside your heart, it eats you and slowly corrodes your soul. It makes you a vengeful, bitter, ugly person, and totally warps your mind.This can have workplace repercussions when you start to hold grudges and vendettas against your colleagues, customers, or boss.Just as you can train yourself to be a grateful person, you can also train yourself to be a forgiving one. Forgiving your partner is about moving on.Meet with them and talk â€" as amicably as possible.No matter how what or how much you said about each other or did to each other during the divorce process, especially if it went to court, try your best to end your relationship on a mutually respectful note.So long as you are angry at each other, neither of you will be able to move on, and your anger at each other will spill into all your future rela tionships, whether romantic, with friends, in the family, or even at work.Closing the chapter is not just about forgiveness. It is also about acceptance.Sure it’s possible that the two of you could get back together again (though unlikely), but for the moment it is assumed that your marriage is over.To hold on to the hope of getting back together is a cruel thing to do to yourself. It prevents you from moving on.When you see them move on with their life and start seeing other people, it will really hurt. It’s best to accept that what has happened has happened, pick up the pieces, and move on with your life.Instead of thinking of it as an end of something, why don’t you think of it as the beginning of something new? It could be the beginning of a new life, a new adventure.The possibilities are limitless.HAVE A SUPPORT NETWORKIsolating yourself is the worst thing you can do after a divorce. When you pull away from others, that’s when you start to ruminate and to ask destructiv e questions, playing unhelpful scenarios on your head.To avoid this, you must have a support network to lean on when things go sideways. These are people who will listen to you nonjudgmentally and slowly guide your healing process.Unfortunately, not all of us have truly close friendships. Furthermore, our friends can desert us in times of stress.In addition, the friends that do stay on may be the judgmental â€" friends who encourage our anger and hatred against our partner. Such friends may be fun normally, but when you are going through a bad patch like a divorce, that’s not what you need.You need a friend who will listen to you nonjudgmentally, without giving negative opinions, friends who will help you heal and move on.Sometimes all you need is someone to listen to you without judging either you or the person you are talking about.Few people are able to give you this kind of safe space.That’s why you should look for divorce support groups in your area, if they are any. If the re aren’t, you can always join a divorce support group on social media â€" they are many.If possible, look for a local one, especially one that organizes meet ups for the members to interact and share their stories.Such groups provide a safe and open space where divorced people can open up without fearing judgment. In such a group, you are free to be vulnerable.Furthermore, many of the people in such groups have more experience than you in dealing with divorce and may give you great advice on what to do or not do to make the process easier for yourself.REDEFINE YOURSELFOne of the main reasons why people find it difficult to move on after a divorce is the fact that we often define ourselves by our relationships, especially marriage.When they fall apart, we no longer know who we are.As we have shown before in this article, perspective is everything is everything when it comes to surviving a divorce.Adopting a different attitude can make all the difference and free you from a lot of pain.Instead of looking at it as losing your identity, now that you are no longer part of a couple, look at it as an opportunity to redefine yourself. Who are you going to be now?In other words, don’t look back â€" look forward.There are many ways to put this in practice.For instance, you can develop a new hobby â€" maybe take pottery classes, start writing or dancing.Alternatively, you could starting learning a new work related skill, one that will make you more valuable at the work place.You can go out and start meeting new people, and I do not mean romantically.Make new friends.These new friends don’t know you from before your divorce, and therefore will always look at you as the person you are post-divorce.They don’t have a pre-divorce memory of you to compare with. They will therefore accept you as you are now and love you for who you are.You too will learn to love the new you through their nonjudgmental eyes.DON’T LET YOUR DIVORCE BECOME AN EXCUSE AT WORKWhether or not it’s appropriate to tell your boss or colleagues that you went through a divorce will depend on the type of relationship you have.For instance, if you have a more open work environment, where members of your family are free to attend company events, it might be necessary to let them know.Anyway, if you decide to let them know, take care that you don’t overdo it. Don’t be confessional.Don’t go into the details, as a workplace is not the environment for discussing the intimate details of your marriage.You can leave it at the bare minimum of just alerting them that you are no longer married. Informing your boss and colleagues ensures that awkward situations don’t happen â€" like someone sending a holiday card or gift basket addressed to you and your partner.Whatever you do, don’t let your divorce become an excuse for poor performance at work.That’s why you should avoid going into the details. When you go into detail, it makes you a victim. The victim mentality makes you seek sympathy from others.When you do something wrong, like coming in late, the victim mentality leads you to thinking that everyone will understand you are going through a hard time.Try as much as possible to maintain clear boundaries between your work and personal life. These boundaries are there to protect you.They ensure your divorce doesn’t spill into your workplace and ruin your reputation or career prospects.Fortunately, if you will have gone through the other steps described above, it will be much easier to maintain the boundaries between your work and personal life.WRAPPING IT UPDivorce is one of the toughest things you can go through on an emotional level.It’s literally the death of something â€" a relationship that defined you and meant so much to you. Post-divorce, it is normal to grieve over what we have lost.Unfortunately, this grieving process can spill onto other aspects of our lives.If we are not careful, the bitter feelings that we carry in our heart can poison our other relationships and ruin our performance at work.I hope that the strategies shared in this article have enlightened you on what to do to avoid falling apart at work following a divorce.

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Similar to the English surname Little, Klein is  a  descriptive surname often bestowed on someone of short or petite stature. The name derives from  the German klein or Yiddish kleyn, meaning little. The klein root is also  often found used as a surname to distinguish a younger man of the same name, usually a son, in names such as Kleinhans and Kleinpeter. Alternate Surname Spellings:  CLEIN, CLINE, KLINE, KLEINE Surname Origin: German, Dutch Where is the KLEINSurname Most Common? According to surname distribution data from Forebears, Klein is a very  common surname in Germany where it ranks as the countrys 11th most popular surname. It is also common in Israel, where it ranks 23rd and the Netherlands, where it ranks 36th.   WorldNames PublicProfiler  indicates that within Germany, Klein is  most common in Saarland, followed by Rheinland-Pfalz. Its also very common in the Germany-bordering regions of France, including Alsace and Lorraine. Surname maps from Verwandt.de indicate that the Klein surname is present in the largest numbers in western Germany, in places such as Kà ¶ln, Rhein-Sieg-Kreis, Saarlouis, Stadtverband Saarbrà ¼cken, Siegen-Wittgenstein, Rhein-Erft-Kreis, and Oberbergischer Kreis, as well as in the cities of Berlin, Hamburg and Munich.   Famous People with the KLEIN Last Name Yves Klein - French painter and sculptorLawrence Klein  - American economistCalvin Klein  - American fashion designerJacob Theodor Klein  - German botanist, zoologist and politicianEmanuel Edward Klein - Croatian-born bacteriologist Genealogy Resources for the Surname KLEIN Little/Klein/Cline/Kline Y-Chromosome ProjectThis DNA project includes over 85 members with the surnames Little, Klein, Kline, or Cline interested in working collaboratively to combine genealogy research with DNA testing to sort out Little family lines. German Surname Meanings and OriginsUncover the meaning of your German last name with this guide to surname meanings and origins from Germany. How to Research German  AncestryLearn how to research your German family tree with this guide to genealogical records in Germany, including birth, marriage, death, census, military and church records. Klein Family Crest - Its Not What You ThinkContrary to what you may hear, there is no such thing as a Klein  family crest or coat of arms for the Klein surname.  Coats of arms are granted to individuals, not families, and may rightfully be used only by the uninterrupted male line descendants of the person to whom the coat of arms was originally granted.   KLEIN  Family Genealogy ForumSearch this popular genealogy forum for the Klein surname to find others who might be researching your ancestors, or post your own Klein genealogy query. FamilySearch - KLEIN  GenealogyExplore over 3.9  million  historical records which mention individuals with the Klein surname, as well as online Klein family trees on this free website hosted by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. GeneaNet - Klein  RecordsGeneaNet includes archival records, family trees, and other resources for individuals with the Klein  surname, with a concentration on records and families from France and other European countries. DistantCousin.com - KLEIN  Genealogy Family HistoryExplore free databases and genealogy links for the last name Klein. The Klein  Genealogy and Family Tree PageBrowse family trees and links to genealogical and historical records for individuals with the last name Klein  from the website of Genealogy Today. ----------------------- References: Surname Meanings Origins Cottle, Basil.  Penguin Dictionary of Surnames. Baltimore, MD: Penguin Books, 1967. Dorward, David.  Scottish Surnames. Collins Celtic (Pocket edition), 1998. Fucilla, Joseph.  Our Italian Surnames. Genealogical Publishing Company, 2003. Hanks, Patrick and Flavia Hodges.  A Dictionary of Surnames. Oxford University Press, 1989. Hanks, Patrick.  Dictionary of American Family Names. Oxford University Press, 2003. Reaney, P.H.  A Dictionary of English Surnames. Oxford University Press, 1997. Smith, Elsdon C.  American Surnames. Genealogical Publishing Company, 1997. Back toGlossary of Surname Meanings Origins

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Why would I update my WordPress site? I like it the way it is now! youre thinking.Well, your site might be safe for now but there are lots of monsters under the bed just waiting to attack it in the future. Thats why updating your WordPress site safely should be  one of the 10 WordPress commandments for everyone.Specifically:Why should I update my site?There are a couple of items that make this list, which will probably help you understand why updating really matters:Security. The WordPress platform faces lots of bugs, vulnerabilities, and hacks daily. Each one can be more or less dangerous. It depends  whether youre having good or bad luck. However, with each WordPress update, a number of bugs are always fixed and a number of security holes are patched, effectively making it harder for anyone to break into your site.New features and functionalities are added to each newly released version. Whether its completely new stuff, or just making the old stuff work better, those updates bring a lot of improvements. They will not only ease your work as a website owner, but will also improve your visitors experience.Speed.  Each new release comes with optimizations geared at making your website faster. Who wants a slow site anyway?Compatibility with modern tools and technology. Technology evolves so fast that its hard to keep up but WordPress somehow does. And some modern plugins require you to be on the newest version of the WordPress core in order to use them.If youre still not convinced that the update is essential, this resource will give you even more reasons why you shouldnt wait any longer.How to update my WordPress site safely?Okay, updating your site is easy, it takes 5 or 10 minutes tops.Here are the steps you should follow:1. Back up your siteBy backing up your site, you will make sure that your content is stored somewhere safe, so it wont be affected by the update. And in case anything goes wrong, you can always restore the old version of your site fr om the backup.There are lots of WordPress backup plugins  out here that will handle things for you on autopilot. So right now, proceed to install your plugin of choice, and then back up your files, database, themes, plugins, and uploads.Lets take BlogVault as an example to illustrate how backing up is done.Note. If BlogVault seems a bit too expensive ($7.4 / month), there are some alternatives available. Particularly, the new options in the Jetpack plugin allow you to take advantage of daily backups, one-click restores, spam filtering, and 30-day backup archive for the price of $3.50 / month. Quality-wise, Jetpack has everything you could need.After installing the main BlogVault plugin, go to the plugins section in the wp-admin, sign up to the service, and youll have the BlogVault dashboard on the screen right away.Add your site by clicking this button:After adding the site, click on Backup Now:Once the backup is done, click on History from the same menu to see all your backups.Yo u can download the backup to your computer or upload it to an off-site storage (I like to use Dropbox for that).2. Turn caching offIf you have any caching plugins enabled, turn them off during the update.Caching modifies the way your website works on the back-end, which will have an impact  on its performance, and who knows what else.3. Update your themes and pluginsJust like WordPress itself gets frequent updates, plugins do too (even more frequently). So first, update your themes and plugins.Lets start with the plugins.Go to your wp-admin and click on the button recommending you to update WordPress:There, youll see a list of all your plugins that need an update too. Select them all and click on Update Plugins:Return to that same WordPress update page, and do the same for themes. (By the way, make sure your plugins have been updated successfully. You should see an appropriate message when you come back.)Heres the panel for updating themes:Note. Theres also a second  way of upda ting your plugins and themes.Go to your wp-admin dashboard and click on Plugins (the sidebar menu). There, youll see a list of all your plugins. Those that are out of date will come with a message notifying you of the update available:Click on update now for each plugin thats outdated.Do the same for themes. Go to Appearance Themes (the sidebar menu again), and the themes list will appear. Check if your current theme is updated. If not, youll see something like this:Click on Update Available and then on update now:4. Update the WordPress coreIts funny how updating WordPress itself is actually the easiest and quickest step in the whole process.So, to update the WordPress core safely, you just need to click one single button. Which is:At this point, your site is  using the latest WordPress version!5. Turn the caching back onSince you disabled the caching mechanism before the upgrade, its time to reactivate it.6. Check if everything is okayNow your site is updated, but its a good id ea to browse around and make sure that things are in order.Go through your pages and posts to see if they are displayed properly. You dont really need to check every small detail, just take a general look.7. Back up your site againIf everything went well, you can back up your site again, just to have the most up-to-date version saved somewhere safe.Its very important to keep any major changes to your sites structure under control and always have the most recent image of the site backed up. If youre using Jetpack for backups, for example, you get a 30-day archive of all your backups, so reverting back to a previous one will not be a problem if anything should go wrong.So this is how you can update your WordPress site safely. At first, it might seem a bit difficult to go through all those steps, but the second time around youll be able to do it in less than 5 minutes. Be honest, when was the last time you updated your WordPress site, your plugins and themes?Free guide5 Essential Tips to Speed Up Your WordPress SiteReduce your loading time by even 50-80% just by following simple tips. * This post contains affiliate links, which means that if you click on one of the product links and then purchase the product, well receive a small fee. No worries though, youll still pay the standard amount so theres no cost on your part.

Hunting and Gathering vs Sedentary Living Essay Example

Hunting and Gathering vs Sedentary Living Essay Example Hunting and Gathering vs Sedentary Living Essay Hunting and Gathering vs Sedentary Living Essay Gathering and Hunting Vs. Sedentary Living There are many events in the past that changed the course of history. The Neolithic Agricultural Revolution marked the transition between gathering and hunting to sedentary lifestyles. There were benefits to this change that have lasted until societies today. As well as benefits, there were also costs that effected people’s lives. The role of men and women shifted and things were slowly started changing to a world that is much like society today. Moving from gathering and hunting to sedentary living had its advantages. One of the advantages was the increase in their writing system. Writing was needed to keep track of the new flow of records coming in. As civilizations began to grow and thrive more people needed to be accounted for and these records needed to be recorded. It got to the point where the prehistoric pictures and murals weren’t enough. The civilians used symbols to account for the needs of the town. The creation of writing is beneficial also because it makes it possible for societies today to be aware and knowledgeable of the way that life was before them. It was also possible for laws to be set for the town’s people to see, and abide by them. One example of this is Hammurabi’s Code. Hammurabi’s Code was posted in the town and people were able to access it. The code set up rules for an ordered society. An ordered society was beneficial because since people were now becoming settled, there were new interactions that were unusual people didn’t know how to act around these situations. â€Å"Law codes give us an idea of a people’s sense of justice and notions of code† (Reilly 58). It also shows us how past societies, especially early civilizations lived their daily lives and kept order. There were other benefits of transitioning to a sedentary lifestyle such as the creation of centralized governments. Creating these governments along with the codes enforced order in the society and ensured the safety of the citizens. Another benefit was the creation of irrigation systems and farming. Farming is an imperative need to societies. People get their produce from farming. The creation of the irrigation system helped transfer the water from the surrounding rivers to the town so that they can farm crops. Also, the creation of stone tools helped make it easier to tend these crops. These tools also helped weave clothing and other needs for the new civilizations. The development of farming also was useful for domestication. By the villagers having an ordered way of growing and collecting food, the animals got drawn to the crops so they are easier to capture and tame. Farming also led to people settling down. People no longer had to go elsewhere to look for crops and herbds because they grew them in the community. Along with benefits, there were costs to moving to a sedentary lifestyle. For example, it changed people’s lifestyles. As gatherers, people were able to move freely and do as they please. There was nobody to tell them what to do such as leaders and tyrants. Once civilizations started to form everything had to be in order so there were changes. People were being told what to do and they suddenly didn’t have the opportunity to be nomads. This made it hard to adjust to third new society. As shown in the movie N! ai, the Story of a ! Kung Woman, this led to sickness in the village. People were dying left and right. Settling down also led to the introduction of slavery. People were set into social classes and people of the lower class were forced to do the labor that the upper-class didn’t want to do. Slavery was not here when there were Hunter- Gatherers because one more hand meant one more mouth to feed. They did things for themselves. There were also issues of social class. Citizens were classified by their occupation and what they could bring to the community. The commoners or lower class people with the less respected jobs ere always treated differently no matter what it was. With this shift in society also came the change of the status of men and women. Before settlement women held power and respect. People respected them because they were responsible for the farming which was the main way of acquiring food aside from hunting. Men and females were fairly equal in part. After settlement, the role of a female slowly began to digress and men became more powerful. In Mesopotamia as early as 2300 BCE inscriptions for ‘slave girl’ appear earlier than those translating as ‘slave male† (Reilly 31). There was also a high demand for female slaves as opposed to male slaves. In Marjorie Shostak’s Nisa: The Life and Words of a ! Kung Woman, she revealed how women weren’t able to speak their mind above a man. Men had final sa y in decisions and women were just there to back it up. Also young females were forced into marriage by their parents, but as mentioned before, the male parental figure would make the final decisions. In conclusion, the shift from a nomadic lifestyle to settled lifestyles has shown great change in the way that things were ran. The primary and secondary accounts listed in this essay helped readers see the emphasis that this change has on society today. There were sacrifices that people had to make in order to accommodate these changes. Even though one of these sacrifices had to be things such as equality of the sexes, this change still has marked something greater; a gateway for the development of future societies.